"I have tried nostringsattached and nostringsaffair. Nostringsattached is the biggest scam!!! There are literally no females in my market who are active on the site. All except 1 have not been on the site in over 3 months. However, you wont know that until you pay the membership fee. None of them are paying members either which means they cant respond to your messages unless you pay an extra $20 to grant them access to email you back. I'M NOT PAYING AN $20 TO GRANT SOMEONE ACCESS TO EMAIL ME BACK AND THEY HAVE NOT EVEN VISITED THE SITE IN OVER 3 MONTHS. I'm still trying nostringsaffairs; however, I've received no activity on there as of yet. I have been receiving random messages from women in California which have all been BS. It's going in the negative direction but my verdict is still out on that one. I just don't understand how you can message so many woman and no one views your page. I've been on regular dating sites that I've paid for like POF, Black People Meet, zoosk and okcupid and had plenty of profile views after I send a message but none on these three sites. FOR ASHLEY MADISON, You have to use your limited credits to send any message which is fine as it's their business model. However; ive sent 13 messages with no response and the system says the recipients are online. No one has even viewed my page and I keep getting random auto generated messages from random females. Its all a big a scam. I didn't want to believe the reviews but now I wish I had. Now I'm $70 in the negative and still no activity. "