"Well, I met someone that I thought was great. Only to find out that he was still married. And he lied to me for several months about it. He has no consideration of the women he gets involved with. I do take 50% blame in that I didn't check his background enough. We tried to work through it all but, he kept talking to other women behind my back. I ended the relationship."
"I very nervously became a member on Jan 9, of this year. On Jan 10, I received a "smile" from one of your members, questions on Jan 11, and a request to change to e-mail almost immediately. I arranged to meet this person on Jan 18. We had a 3-4 hour lunch, and have seen each other every Saturday and Sunday and holiday since. He is the nicest, kindest, most wonderful person I have ever met. If I had written down what my "perfect" man was at any time (I hadn't), he would be all of that and a whole lot more. I wish we lived closer, but I have just fallen so in love with him and he with me. I sincerely hope it will lead to something permanent. I feel so blessed to have him in my life.
He was not ever in my matches. I sent out a few smiles to other matches you have sent me, but have not gone much farther as no one compares to this fantastic man I have become acquainted with. No one believes that I could find someone in 24 hours. I do believe in angels, and seriously think there was some divine intervention going on here.
Thank you so much for connecting me to this beautiful man!"
"It works! You still have to put the time and effort in to search through your matches and you have to be in the right place in your life to be in a relationship, but once you're there, they take all the hurdles out of your way for meeting someone."
"I can't thank e-harmony enough. I was looking to find somebody to share the second half of my life with. After going through a divorce after thirty years of marriage I was just looking for some companionship but I found so much more. I am now married to a very special man who I love with all my heart. THANK YOU E-HARMONY!!"
"I met someone on this site, don't know how, but this really works. I never thought I'd meet someone who I actually liked and the feeling was mutual by using online dating, but here we are."
"Obviously when someone has to pay for a service, they take it more seriously, so I found the women using eHarmony were a slightly better candidates then some of the candidates on “free” sites like Plenty of Fish (POF) where you get hookers, people trying to catfish you, and other scam artists trying to fool you. And eHarmony asks a lot more questions and shows the results to potential candidates so you get a better idea if the person is a decent match or not. But in the end, they take the same approach as any other dating site (free or pay) – they just throw a lot of candidates at you and hope you and make you do all the work of weeding through them to find someone that might also have interest in you. So basically, it’s another time-consuming site like the rest of them regardless of what they say in their ads on TV. They really AREN’T any better than the rest. I have also used Match.com and the same is true of them as well – only I found their interface more confusing than eHarmony’s. I had no more success finding dates on eHarmony than I did on the free sites like POF. Only on POF, as I said, I did have someone try to scam me, I also got approached by women looking for a sugar daddy, and also women looking for someone to take care of them and their kids. I didn’t encounter any of that on eHarmony or Match.com."
"My boyfriend and I met on Eharmony.com almost 3 years ago. He sent me a wink and I followed up with a e-mail. We spoke for several weeks before committing to meet in person. When we met in person I was happier than I was seeing his on-line profile. My boyfriend is by no means a troll nor does he take horrible photos, but in person he had a personality to match everything that I had already seen. Eharmony.com was the best decision I have ever made- It helped me find the love of my life. "
"I found my true love, best friend, and my everything using EHarmony! "
"They really did not do a very good job of honoring my match preferences. Over 3/4 of the women they continue to match me with are the complete opposite of my explicitly stated match preferences. It is very frustrating."
"I was totally satisfied with Eharmony. A year after I met Larry online, we were engaged and then married 8 months later. Thank you Eharmony for helping me to find my soul mate."
"eHarmony has been a huge disappointment. I've been a member for a year and a half and have had a grand total of three dates during that time. Part of the problem is that nearly half of the profiles I'm sent have no pictures at all so you have no clue what the person looks like. The information contained in the profiles is limited. eHarmony has been a total waste of my time and money and I am going to cancel my membership. I am a member of that "other" well known dating site and have had much more success on it. I still haven't found a permanent match as yet, but at least I'm meeting people and going out. Which is more than I can say for eHarmony."
"Ron and I met on EHarmony in January, 2010 and were married January 2011 - we have many times marveled at the matching abilities of the questions as we were matched up the first day he joined, He contacted me along with some other ladies who were matched and I had gentlemen matches too, but soon we were an 'item'. It has been almost 5 years of a loving, caring adventure - even for two people in their 60's. Thanks EHarmony ! We recommend you to our friends too. LN"
"I relied entirely on eHarmony to objectively determine a suitable and compatible match. After 3 months of marriage, the relationship crumbled and ultimately culminated in divorce.I would NOT recommend this service."
"I was lucky enough to find my husband on eharmony after dating 2 other people. We met in February of 2010 and have been married since May 2013. Our daughter just turned 1 in July!"
"I met the love of my life here and we are getting married in six months. I can't think of a much better endorsement than that! My fiancee and I are like walking billboards for eHarmony now :)"